Showing posts with label memoirs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label memoirs. Show all posts

Monday, 30 September 2024

The Courageous Heart: Wisdom for Difficult Times

 "Special Work"


My Review


Last week I read "The Courageous Heart: Wisdom for Difficult Times" written by
Rod Pickett. 

Although it was a short book (only 162 pages) it took a while to read everything.

The Courageous Heart: Wisdom for Difficult Times was a combination between
a kind of diary and beautiful quotes. So, I wanted to take up everything I read
carefully. The book was written very clear and fluently.

If you like to read essays, short stories and beautiful quotes, then it is a book
recommended for you.

I really enjoyed it, so without any doubt I give a 5 star rating for this special work.




Booktasters


I want to thank Booktasters as well as the author, Rod Pickett, for their patience.
It took a time to read and to give an honest review, which I did.



Source picture: Book cover

Monday, 5 September 2022

Honor in Concord: Seeking Spirit in Literary Concord

 A special book


Summary


first year she lived in the historic town of Concord, Massachusetts
in an antique home she calls "Quiet House" on a street named for Henry
David Thoreau. One day she sets out to record the images of Concord's
past that are always on her mind and what results is a fictional story told
within the pages of memoir in which the writers of mid-19th century
Concord (i.e., Hawthorne, Emerson, Thoreau, Fuller and Alcott) are
living new lives in Concord in present day.




My Review


First of all: what a special book! I liked the different stories but it 
was from time to time a bit confusing. Nevertheless I really enjoyed
reading the book.

It is a memoir published on 17 June 2022 and it contains 270 pages. 

Without any doubt I give a 4 star rating for this special book! 



The author


Cathryn McIntyre is the author of two memoirs, Honor in Concord
and The Thoreau Whisperer, about her experience living in the historic
town of Concord, Massachusetts. She is also a natural psychic and
clairvoyant, an astrologer, a UFO experiencer, a shared death
experiencer, and an occasional ghost investigator.

McIntyre also did a candid interview with Paranormal
Underground Magazine in which she discussed a lifetime of paranormal
and supernatural experiences. It can be read on her
website: www.theconcordwriter.com


Booktasters


I really want to thank booktasters and the author as well for providing
me a free copy in return of my honest review, which I did. 

Wednesday, 4 May 2022

Kat the Dog: The remarkable tale of a rescued Spanish water dog

There only are a few books, which really touched me, 
Kat the dog is one of them.

Kat the Dog: The remarkable tale of a
rescued Spanish water dog

written by Alyson Sheldrake


Summary

A captivating and emotional story of survival and second chances.

Escaping from a wretched existence on a rundown farm, a young Spanish
water dog goes on the quest of a lifetime, in search of a family to love
her and a place to call home.

Follow Kat the Dog as she tells her heart-warming and uplifting story.
The little dog with a big heart who journeyed through fear and starvation
to find her forever home.




My review


What a wonderful tale!

I read it in one time from the beginning till the end (never happened
before with a book).

It's a very emotional story, excellent fluently written and the author
captured the character of Kat the Dog very well. I really enjoyed it much!

Without any doubt I recommend this to all animal lovers and I hope
Kat the Dog will receive many stars, likes and hugs!

I give this amazing tale a 5 star rating!





The author


In 2021 author, Alyson Sheldrake was a guest on this blog. It was an 
honour to "get to know" her a bit more.

See this link


We Love Memoirs


I was introduced to Alyson Sheldrake via The We Love Memoirs group
on Facebook. This really is the most wonderful and friendliest group on
Facebook. They're on Twitter too.



Source pictures: Alyson Sheldrake 

Saturday, 29 January 2022

Bookreview: The Travel Stories Collection

These series really are fantastic!  


A must read for avid travelers and adventurers. 







Book 1: Chasing the Dream – A new life abroad

20 different stories. One shared dream – the chance to start a new life overseas.

Young lives, families, midlife movers, rash spur-of-the-moment property purchasers,
and retirement dreamers are all featured in this book. Read about their adventures
and find out what it is really like to move abroad.


Book 2: Itchy Feet – Tales of travel and adventure

From the Indonesian jungle, to an epic journey out of Africa, and rafting the
Zambezi. Find out what Egypt is like in a heatwave, and hunt down Dracula
in Transylvania. Catch a rare glimpse into the lives of the last Pech Indigenous
people of La Moskitia, Honduras. Be entertained by a teenager’s first glance of
foreign soil, and an Australian view of England. Ride a Harley through France
and Spain and find out what makes someone a perpetual nomad.


Book 3: Wish You Were Here – Holiday Memories

We all have that one holiday that stands out in our minds, that one break or
vacation we will never forget. Whether it is a childhood ‘bucket and spade’
family holiday, the ‘once-in-a-lifetime’ dream destination, your first trip abroad
or the city where you first fell in love, the memories are still there today.

Also includes 17 Bonus Chapters - Exclusive to this box set collection.

A wonderful collection of short travel stories from all over the world.



My Review

Each of the books contains lovely stories, which I read with a laugh and a 
tear. I really enjoyed all of them. 

Alyson Sheldrake has collected a number of very interesting and fantastic
travel writers. It takes the reader over the whole world. I liked that armchair
traveling a lot.

These series are a must read for travelers, adventures and people who love
reading memoirs. 

I give with lots of pleasure a 5 star rating to the complete series.


The author





Alyson Sheldrake is a fantastic professional artist and author living
and working in the beautiful Algarve in Portugal. 

Of course I'm a bit prejudiced because she had an author in the picture
blog post on this blog. See this link. I also was a beta reader for these 
"The Travel Storries Collection" books. 

More about Alyson Sheldrake, check her website on this link

We Love Memoirs


I 'met' Alyson Sheldrake via the We Love Memoirs group on Facebook.
This is a very interesting and friendly place for authors, bloggers and 
avid travel readers. 


Monday, 18 October 2021

Bookreview : Our Italian Journey

A truly wonderful journey


Summary

Imagine living in Italy for one full year. This was always the dream and 
promise made to each other.

Ilene and Gary Modica sold almost everything they owned to spend a year
in the land of Gary’s Italian grandparents, to walk where they walked,
eat what they ate, and live in the shadow of history.


Few places evoke the stirring passions and romance of Italy, where the
simple act of sharing a glass of wine, a perfect pizza, and good conversation
is an art form. Be prepared to immerse yourself in this beautiful country
and live vicariously through the couple's authentic encounters.


You’ll also discover:
How their dream and desire for a genuine experience with a true Italian
family came unexpectedly true

How, through this journey, they eat and drink their year through Italy
visiting eight regions and forty-six cities, including Sicilia and their
new Italian birthplace.


Our Italian Journey is a travel memoir of an adventure that has forever
changed the lives of this Arizona couple. Through experiences and humor,
they invite you along their spellbinding journey, exploring quaint villages
steeped in tradition and local culture. Come take a glimpse of Italy through
the eyes of these new Italian citizens and experience firsthand the Italian
zest for living “La Dolce Vita,” in this compelling read.










My review


What a truly wonderful journey! The authors took us - readers - to Italy.
It was very nice reading and following their adventures and I hope another
book will follow soon! 

I certainly will recommend this book to people who like to read wonderful 
travel memoirs.

Without no doubt, I give Italian Journey a 5 star rating!



The authors


To read more about the authors Ilene and Gary Modica, check their website:

https://ouritalianjourney.com/


We Love Memoirs


I received a free copy (I'm sorry it took so long for this review) via the
loveliest group on Facebook: We Love Memoirs! 

Tuesday, 10 August 2021

Bookreview: Fat Dogs and French Estates Part 3

What a brilliant series!


Summary

When Beth and her grumpy husband, Jack, buy their dream country estate,
it fast becomes obvious that they've taken on a renovation nightmare.

Managing a team of eccentric French builders, getting lost in their own
forest, dogging stampeding wild boar, battling stinking bugs and
outwitting athletic dormice are just a few of the challenges they must face.

Will they succeed?

This is the third instalment of the Haslam's French adventures.






My Review


I started reading with the third book of the series, but I could follow easily,
although now I wanted to read them all, because it's a brilliant series!

It is written so funny and so clear. The author is a fantastic story teller and
I can imagine she speaks the way she write. 

I experienced a lot of feelings in this book: sadness, happiness and laughter.
I enjoyed reading about the author's daily life and adventures in France.

I would recommend this book to all people who like to read personal 
memoirs. 

Without any doubt, I want to give this book a 5 star rating! Sad I couldn't
give even more stars! 


About the author

Beth Haslam was brought up on a country estate in Wales. Deep in the
countryside her childhood was spent either on horseback, helping the
gamekeepers raise pheasants or out sailing.

After a serious car crash in 1991, she set up her own consultancy business. 
Beth and her husband, Jack decided to buy a second home in France.

This became a life-changing event where computers and mobile phones
swapped places with understanding the foibles of the French and tackling
the language. 




We Love Memoirs 

I received a free copy of Fat Dogs and French Estates Part 3 via the
We Love Memoirs group which is really the most friendliest group
on Facebook! 

Wednesday, 21 July 2021

Author in the picture: Dawne Archer

Recently I read and reviewed Trekker Girl - Morocco Bound (you can read my
review on this link). I was pleasantly surprised by the book and by the motives
of the author - Dawne Archer - as well. That's why I asked her if she wanted to
participate in an author in the picture blogpost. Luckily she said yes 😊.

So here are the questions and answers of Dawne Archer in her Author in the
picture blog post on this blog. 



 WHO IS DAWNE ARCHER?

A very good question and one I sometimes ponder. The short
answer is that I am a 61-year-old woman, reasonably fit and
healthy despite issues with thrombosis, ready to get back to
travelling the world.

 

WHAT IS THROMBOSIS?

Trombosis is the formation of blood clots. They can occur in
the arteries,often manifesting as strokes or heart attacks, or in
the veins. I havehad two veinous blood clots, one in my leg
(Deep Vein Thrombosis) and one in my lung
(Pulmonary Embolism). I am very lucky to be alive, whereas
my Dad died of a PE.

There can be multiple causes. In my case, I inherited a gene
mutation called Factor 5 Leiden, which isn't that unusual and often
causes no problems. Unfortunately, I have inherited this from both
parents, making my risk factor in certain situations up to 88 times
higher. That is an astonishing statistic and 
I could fill many pages
with the information I have about 
thrombosis,
but the most accurate and helpful source of 
facts, figures and
support is Thrombosis UK 
(www.thrombosisuk.org).




 

CAN YOU TELL ME MORE ABOUT YOUR
FUNDRAISING FOR THROMBOSIS UK?

My first fundraiser was the Sahara Desert Trek which is the
subject of my book, 'Trekker Girl Morocco Bound'. I joined a
group of trekkers, paying all the expenses myself so that every
penny I raised went to Thrombosis UK. Was it a step too far
for a moderately healthy woman in her early 50s? I will let you
answer that one. It was certainly a tougher challenge than I had expected.

My fundraising is ongoing, with an overnight walk through the
mountains of Mallorca and I even competed in a ballroom dance
competition. The dancing was a long way out of my comfort zone
as I prefer walking boots to high heels, but it was a successful
fundraising event. I am currently trying to plan a challenge that
will attract both attention and donations because I aim to raise
awareness of thrombosis, something which does save lives,
as well as much needed funds.

 

YOU TRIED TO OVERCOME YOUR HEALTH
PROBLEMS BY TRAVELLING. WHY TRAVELLING?

My health issues are with me for life. I have tried to live to the full,
despite having to take care in certain situations. For example,
flying is a risk as is being immobile, especially after an operation.
In 90 minutes we all lose 50% of the blood flow in our legs.
I am a restless person and travelling keeps me 'on the go'.
Curiosity drives me forward, itching to learn more about
other countries and cultures. I may have to change my
mode of transport and adapt my methods but nothing, including
Covid, will keep me down.




 

HOW DID YOU FIND YOUR NAME 'TREKKER GIRL'?

I couldn't believe this name was not already in use! I used an
organisation called 'Just Giving' to collect the funds for my trek
and needed a catchy name. I love it.


WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE PLACE/COUNTRY EVER?

That is a difficult question to answer, having lived in the UK,
North America and Spain at various times. It is also hard to
pick on only one place I have visited, as I have had such
amazing experiences in many locations. I will say that Cuba
is full of special people, Chile has all kinds of dramatic natural
landscapes to explore and Alaska is just awe inspiring…I
could go on. A part of my heart belongs to a small rock in
the middle of the Irish Sea called the Isle of Man.





DO YOU HAVE OTHER INTERESTS OR HOBBIES?

Apart from writing and travelling? I love to entertain friends and
family and, of course, I walk most days, preferably somewhere
with a view of the sea. I enjoyed my involvement with a local
radio station, conducting interviews which gave me the opportunity
to indulge my curiosity about other people and their motivations.
You can be sure that I am rarely stuck for something to say.

Covid has made us all less mobile and I have indulged in lots
of reading (especially memoirs, thanks to the marvellous
Facebook group 'We Love Memoirs'). Tapestry and jigsaws kept
me occupied during the lockdowns, and I am always keen to try
something new, but it is safe to say that quilting proved disastrous.



Dawne Archer at the Glastonbury Music Festival

 


WHAT DOES YOUR FAMILY THINK ABOUT YOUR PLANS?

Covid has made me realise that there is nothing more important
to me than family. Seeing them whenever possible has been,
and still is, a priority. However, they know I will never stop
travelling and that has always been the way. They love to hear
'tall stories' of my adventures.

 

DO YOU LIKE TO WRITE/WORK IN THE EARLY
HOURS OR LATE?

I am very much a night owl. Peace and quiet in the later hours
of the day suit me best.

 

DO YOU HAVE PLANS TO WRITE OTHER BOOKS?

Digging through some old storage boxes, I found a treasure trove
of diaries written on my trips. Some short travel memoirs sound
like a fun way to get some more of my writing out into the world.
I have also contributed to a couple of published compilations
of travel stories.



Boot problems while travelling



WHAT DO YOU WISH FOR YOU AND THE WORLD?

That is a very good question and one that needs a lot of thought.
For me, I wish continued good health with no further thrombosis
episodes. For my family, good health too.
For the world? A way through the current Covid crisis.

 

You can find me here:

www.facebook.com/trekkergirl2012/

www.amazon.com/author/dawnearcher

twitter handle: @DawneArcher19

Email: trekkergirl@outlook.com

Trekker Girl Morocco Bound is available from Amazon at

https://mybook.to/TrekkerGirl


A big Thank you


I want to say a big thank you to Dawne Archer for participating in her own
Author in the picture blogpost on this blog. 

It's always nice to talk to very inspiring authors such as Dawne Archer. 

Sunday, 30 May 2021

Bookreview: The Ultimate Love

What an emotional book


Summary

A remarkable and inspiring journey of a grieving mother. "The ultimate Love"
will make you shed a few tears. But it'll also remind you to value every second
you have with your loved ones and treasure the memories of those who passed
away. 









My review

I read Nadeem's Journey a while ago and I wanted to know how Nadeem's mother
handled her grief. 

Again it was a very emotional book, well written and structured. You feel
what the author experienced. 

I would like to recommend this book to people who love to read honest, emotional
memoirs. Without any doubt, I give this a 5 star rating! 


Booktasters


I received a free copy via Booktasters and the author, Sherine Anniruth.
I hope she continues writing.

The Ultimate Love is available on Amazon. 

Friday, 14 May 2021

Bookreview: A New Life in the Algarve, Portugal

An anthology of life stories curated by

Alyson Sheldrake 



Wonderful stories of People who moved to Portugal! 


Summary


What makes a person decide to move abroad to start a new life? And why do so many 
people choose the Algarve in Portugal as their dream location?

In this compilation of life stories, you can read about a whole range of different people
who have made the Algarve their home. 

Read about the families that moved to live in the Algarve in the early 1970's, before
tourism was even an idea. 

Funny moments, heartfelt journeys, and real-life modern adventures are all covered
in this fascinating anthology. 







My Review


I'm a huge fan of short (travel) stories about people's lives and intentions. That's why
I liked to read this amazing book. Besides that, Portugal is without any doubt one of
my favourite holiday countries. 

Do I need to say more? I really enjoyed reading. The stories were honest and interesting
as well! 

I would recommend this book to all who want to move to Portugal or people who just
like to read travel memoirs.

I give with lots of pleasure a 5 star rating for this splendid book! 


The author


Alyson Sheldrake is one of the amazing authors in the picture of this book blog.
You can check her author in the picture blog post on this link

A beta reader


I was very proud to be a beta reader for this book. However, I bought the "real" book
via Amazon.nl because I liked it so much (and because my name was in it 😇😅 ).



Wednesday, 17 March 2021

Bookreview: Summer of 77

What a wonderful memoir!


Summary

A holiday can change everything ...
... it did for Fred.

He went on a two-week break with three friends to the Spanish island of Ibiza in 
July 1976. It was so enjoyable they all vowed to come back for the following
season.

In April 1977, Fred returned to Ibiza, alone, in pursuit of his dream.

Behind him, he left his family, his girlfriend, and a promising career in banking.

Challenges lay ahead.

He needed a place to stay and to find work that would sustain him through the
next six months. 

This true to life memoir follows the 21-year-old Fred's adventures as he acclimatises
to living abroad. In a time before instant communication, he keeps in touch with his
family and friends by letter. They are his lifeline to home. 


My review

Spain and Portugal always are my two favourite holiday countries, so any memoirs
about them always attracts me very much. The 'Summer of 77' written by Robert
'Fred' Fear absolutely didn't let me down.

I loved the short, clear and chronological chapters and the lovely old pictures as 
well. It was written very fluently and I read it easily because the story could interest
me from the beginning until the end. It was so wonderful to learn about his 
adventures in Ibiza.

Of course, I want to give this amazing book a 5 * rating. I highly recommend
'Summer of 77' to all readers who like memoirs about Spain and especially about
Ibiza!





The author

I think every reader of this blog knows already Robert 'Fred' Fear who was the
author in the picture in the blogpost of 3 March 2021 on this link

He really is an amazing author and person! 


We love Memoirs


I received a free copy via the We Love Memoirs group, which really is the most
friendliest and interesting group on Facebook! 

Friday, 5 March 2021

Bookreview: African Ways

 A few weeks ago, I had the pleasure to have a special guest on this blog with
my Author in the picture blog post. It was the lovely Val Poore. (See more on 
this link).

Now I had the honour to read and review one of her books: African Ways. 


Summary

This is the story of a young woman's first encounters with rural South Africa.
Coming from the all-mods-cons society of Britain at the beginning of the 1980's,
the author is literally transplanted to a farm in the foothills of the Drakenberg
mountains in what is now Kwazulu Natal.

Once there, she finds her feet in the ways of Africa with the help of a charming 
elderly Dutch couple, an appealing but wily African farm hand, his practical
and motherly daughter and a wise and fascinating neighbour who has a fund
of local knowledge.

These are tales of a different kind of life, which include living without
electricity, hand-milking cows, drought, veld fires and mad-cap adventures
into the unknown.

They are stories told with deep affection and respect and above all a liberal dose
of tongue in-cheek humour. 




My review


While reading Val Poore's memoirs of South Africa, I regret I know so little
of that continent and its people. 

But luckily, African Ways gives the readers a glimpse of how the living is in
South Africa.

I enjoyed reading African Ways because it's short, clear and the stories are
true but sometimes so funny! 

Of course it was written very well. I also want to mention the fantastic
historical knowledge of Val Poore. 

I would recommend African Ways to all who like to read memoirs about
South Africa. I want to give with lots of pleasure a 5 * rating to this book.




We love memoirs group


I received a free copy via the We love memoirs group, the most friendliest
group on Facebook. 




Source picture: Book Cover 

Wednesday, 3 March 2021

Author in the picture: Robert 'Fred' Fear


 

Thank you very much for participating in this author in the picture blog post!
Lally Brown and Val Poore suggested you as the next author in the picture.
They both said: he is an excellent choice because he does a lot for the other
authors. I read your collection of 40 Inspirational True Stories
and the Summer of 77 is on my read and review list as well!
So, these are the questions, I would like to ask you.


The Questions & Answers


You organise an annual travel writing competition.
Can you explain more about the competition? How did it start? What is your goal?

Many thanks for featuring me on your blog, Kathleen. That is an interesting opening
question. The annual features I run on my blog started out as travel writing
competitions but have now evolved into showcases of authors’ real-life stories.
Let me explain how this venture has developed over the past six years.

While working on the second edition of my travel memoir Fred’s Diary 1981 in
early 2015, I began a blog to help with the editing process. To encourage
people to visit my website, I started a travel story competition (500-1000 words).
It was such a success that I ran another one for travel highlights (50-100 words).
That went well too. I published a selection of these in a book called
Travel Stories and Highlights.

In 2016, I re-ran the contests. Again, there were lots of fantastic entries,
and I released a 2017 edition which included the best contributions
from the first two years. 2017 and 2018 saw the competitions repeated.
This led to publication of the 2018 and 2019 editions of
Travel Stories and Highlights.

In 2019, I changed the format and introduced an Authors Showcase to the blog.
An anthology entitled 40 Memorable Life Experiences was the result.
Last year, I hosted another showcase and published the best stories
in a book called 40 Inspirational True Stories, which was published
in December 2020.

My goal is to give both well-known and lesser-known authors and
writers the opportunity to reach a wider audience. Some contributors
already have memoirs published and others are aiming to publish them
in the future. Indeed, I am proud to say that two writers (that I know of)
were inspired and motivated by the competitions and showcases
to self-publish their own books.

This year I am planning to feature another Authors Showcase. It will run
for six months from 1st April 2021. This year’s subject has yet to be decided,
but nearer the time your readers can find out all the details on my blog
here:
2021 Showcase Guidelines (fd81.net)

All five anthologies are available on Amazon in Kindle and Paperback
formats. They can be ordered via my
Amazon Author page: viewauthor.at/RobertFear





You also work as a self-employed software consultant; do you have to
maintain a strict daily routine?

Yes, I have always had to maintain a strict routine while working.
Until this last year,
writing, editing and self-publishing books was a part-time
‘hobby’ that I had to plan around my ‘day job’. This meant I had to be very
strict with myself, especially when working from home.

Like many of us, however, things changed dramatically with the pandemic.
The software projects I was working on were in the hospitality sector.
All the work I had scheduled dried up as hotels closed and implementation
projects were put on hold. In fact, I have had no work for the past year and
there is nothing in the pipeline.

I am not sure what the future holds, as I am close to retirement age anyway,
but I can now devote more time to my writing. I have also become involved
as a volunteer trustee for the Citizens Advice charity here in Eastbourne,
and that is proving rewarding.


You mostly write travel memoirs, but do you write other genres too?

Before I answer your question about other genres, Kathleen, I hope you do
not mind if I just give you a brief recap about the two travel memoirs that
I have published.

Before starting, I should mention that Fred was a nickname given to me
while at school. It became my travel name and people still know me as
Fred to this day.

Fred’s Diary 1981: Travels in Asia is the edited version of a handwritten
diary that I kept during my time in South-East Asia between February
and July 1981. It stretched to 600 pages of closely written detail.

I almost forgot it for many years. It only appeared when friends asked to
see it or to read it. In 2005, I started typing up my diary onto the computer
as I wanted to share my experiences with others. I got the first two months
completed, but then ran out of motivation. Several years later, there was
an article in a PC magazine about Kindle and self-publishing that
sparked my interest.

The full version of Fred’s Diary 1981 came to market in December
2013 and sold well. It was a long book, though. The paperback ran to
564 pages and contained 165K words.

During the first few months of 2015 further editing took place and
the second edition, released in October 2015, comprised less than
100K words, with 360 pages. It also had a professional edit and
a sparkling new cover.



Amazon link: getbook.at/FredsDiary1981

I will now summarise how I wrote my latest release:
Summer of ‘77: Beaches, bars and boogie nights in Ibiza.

For a long time, I had been itching to write a memoir about the six months
I spent on the Spanish island of Ibiza, when I was 21. I started planning the
book in 2016. It was fortunate I still had the letters I received while working
the season in Ibiza. Otherwise, I would have found it difficult remembering
what happened forty years ago. I transcribed the letters and created a timeline
around them. This triggered memories of events from the time and I began writing.

After much prevarication and self-doubt, I completed the last chapter in May 2019.
Then I began self-editing my words and making the story concise and readable.
Next steps included the choice of a title, commissioning a cover design and
creating the blurb. Then came a professional edit which reduced the word
count by 10% and gave a real polish to the memoir. I published the book in
October 2019, on my 64th birthday.



Summer of 77 is on my to-read list. I'm really looking
forward to read because Portugal and Spain are my 2 favourite
countries to go on holiday 💥


Amazon link: getbook.at/Summerof77

Now back to your question about other genres, Kathleen. I dabble with writing
fiction and have written several short stories. I am also taking an online
Novel Writing Diploma and think this is the direction my writing will
take me in the future.


Are you the only one in your family who writes?

Well, I am now, but my father was a journalist and radio presenter in his later years.
Maybe I can just tell you about his memoirs and how I helped publish his book
after he passed away. 

This started for me back in 1992 when my father, John, was frail and confined to bed
most of the time. Visits to the hospital became more frequent, and the doctors were
talking about months, not years. John had been working on his recollections for 
several years and had already typed up many of the chapters. He also had plans
in place for finishing the remaining parts of his book. Now he could not continue. 

My mother called me to see if I could help. I was more than happy to get involved.
In the evenings and at weekends, I sat at my computer and transcribed the sections
that John had finished. I printed these off and sent them back to him. It was a 
period of reconciliation between father and eldest son as we discussed changes
and planned for the missing chapters.

During the months following his death, I continued working on John's memoirs
with the help of my mother and brother. In 1994 we printed a limited-edition
under the title Exclusive Pedigree. If it had not been for a chance remark, the
life of the book could have ended there. 

Towards the end of 2015, I was visiting my mother for a few days and gave her a
paperback copy of the second edition of Fred’s Diary 1981. Our conversation turned
to self-publishing, and we started talking about John’s memoirs.
Then came the bombshell  from Mary, “Did you know Rob, that John always
wanted his book professionally published?”

I had another challenge ahead, and within months I published my father’s book in
July 2016. I think John would be proud of the finished result, a fabulous tribute to
his life. 

 

Amazon link: getbook.at/ExclusivePedigree


When travelling, do you make a profound research or 
are you open for unexpected things?

I did most of my real travelling in my twenties. Travel plans were very fluid,
and I went with the flow. During that period, I had many adventures, including
the six months in Ibiza in 1977, two months hitchhiking around Europe and then
returning to Ibiza for three months in 1978. After that I based myself in Frankfurt,
Germany between 1979 and 1986 where I worked to get money, but also travelled
further afield. In 1979, I spent four months in the USA and Canada, often going
from place to place on Greyhound buses. In 1981, I took six months out to
travel around Hong Kong, Thailand, India and Nepal. After that I spent a further
five years working in a bank in Frankfurt, but still took a 5-6 week break most years.
For those trips, I toured the Canary Islands, Scandinavia, Greece and Turkey.

In 1986, I returned to Eastbourne on the south coast of England to be with my
future wife. We are still there 35 years later and have taken many holidays
together in the meantime. These have out of necessity been more structured,
but we have had some very special times in places such as Portugal,
Crete, Madeira, Goa, Australia, the Seychelles and New York.
We also got married in Kenya in 1994. Our most recent holidays
were cruises; a 7-day one to Norway in 2016 and a 14-day round trip to the
Canary Islands and Portugal in 2018.

In addition, I have had the fortune to be able to travel with work and spent
a lot of time in different countries around Europe, along with business trips
to Australia, Ghana, Singapore and Suriname. Although these were work-related,
I still found time to explore my surroundings on each occasion.

  

I have a long travelling wish list (perhaps too long J
What’s on your wish list?

There are so many places I would still love to visit when it is safe to do so again.
I am not sure they will ever happen, but my wish list includes South America,
New Zealand, Sri Lanka and Japan. If the opportunity arose,
I would also love to re-visit Nepal and the Seychelles.


Do you like to do something sporty while travelling or in normal life?

I have never been a sporty person, Kathleen. At school, I was the one who
would take a shortcut on the cross-country runs, hiding behind bushes having
a crafty cigarette. I did not enjoy the rough and tumble of rugby, so
I took part as a touch judge. My cricket skills were limited, and
I ended up scoring the matches instead of participating.

One thing I have always enjoyed, however, is walking. There are so many
places to explore near where we live in Eastbourne. I enjoy strolling on the
South Downs and along the seafront. Even during lockdown, I found new
places on my daily exercise walks close to home. To illustrate this,
I am including an extract from an article I wrote in early May last year:

If anyone had told me at the start of the year what was going to happen
in 2020, I would have thought they were crazy.

Over the past few weeks, I have learned to cope with this new reality.
The initial feelings of anxiety and fear subsided, and my views changed
as I became more sensitive to others and aware of how fragile our society is.

We are among the lucky ones. Although work from my day job has
evaporated, my wife and I live in a comfortable house, our three cats
keep us company, and we have enough money to last through this crisis.
As a bonus, the weather has been warm and sunny for the daily exercise
walks we are allowed to take.

When the lockdown was implemented, my thoughts turned to those
less fortunate. Older people unable to leave home, those suffering
 from grief and depression, and residents of countries with even stricter
lockdowns. I thought about how I might share my experiences on social media,
 to give motivation and bring a smile to the faces of those within my reach.

Living where we do in Eastbourne, on the south-east coast of England,
we have many beautiful spots close to our home. There are several parks
filled with trees, plants, grassland and lakes. Not far away is a farm track
that winds through fields where horses, sheep and cattle graze. Birds sing as
though nothing is wrong with the world. Then there is the seafront,
along which runs a three-mile promenade, with views out across the
English Channel.

Because of the lockdown and social distancing measures, there have been
few people around on my daily walks. I gained a sense of tranquillity and
tried to capture those precious moments on my smartphone, so I could
share them with others.

With video clips, I recorded nature’s sights and sounds. These included
gentle swaying trees with uplifting birdsong in the background, views across
idyllic farmland to the hills of the South Downs, and waves crashing onto
the shingle beach on a windy but sunny afternoon.

Amongst other subjects, my photos captured the beauty of spring flowers,
rainbows drawn by children hung in windows, colourful beach huts,
seafront carpet gardens, and the pier’s golden dome sparkling in the
sunlight against a backdrop of clear blue skies.

I posted these to Facebook, both on my timeline and in two groups.
In addition, I shared selected videos and photos on Instagram and
Twitter. Three of those images are included here.



Cherry blossom



Social distancing seagulls



Children’s rainbow drawings


This really looks idyllic!! Nice drawings 🌈


What are your attitudes towards social media and do
you think it has a positive or negative impact on people’s lives?
 

That is a tough one, Kathleen. I have mixed feelings about the
power that tech companies such as Facebook wield in today’s world,
but I think they can be a force for good when used in the proper way.
They can be very addictive though, and we all need to be careful about spending
too much time on them.

The main platforms I use are Facebook (facebook.com/fredsdiary1981)
and Twitter (@fredsdiary1981), although I also have a
presence on Instagram and Pinterest.

I have a favourite group on Facebook called ‘We Love Memoirs’
and I know you are a member too, Kathleen. It is rightly known as
‘the friendliest group on Facebook’. I joined in 2014 and have been
overwhelmed by the encouragement and support they have given me.
My appearance on two of their ‘Sunday Spotlights’ motivated me to
publish my father’s memoirs Exclusive Pedigree and write my
memoir Summer of ’77



www.facebook.com/groups/welovememoirs


For the past three and a half years, I have had the honour of running the
‘We Love Memoirs’ Twitter page and we have built up a wonderful group
there as well. ‘We Love Memoirs’ has also recently launched on Instagram.
The handle on both Twitter and Instagram is @welovememoirs.

So, overall, I am very positive about social media and its influences on
people, provided it is used in the right way.


I always end with the same question: What are your wishes/hopes/ ….
for 2021 for you personally as well as for the world?

I am an optimistic person and try to look on the bright side of life. 
That has not been easy with the trials and tribulations of the pandemic,
but I hope we can all learn something from our experiences over the past
year. My sincere wish is that we all become kinder and more compassionate
towards each other and our planet.

 

Thank you again for hosting me on your blog today, Kathleen,
and for your thought-provoking questions.
May I wish you every success for the future.


Thank you!

Thank you Robert 'Fred' Fear to have you on my blog! It was a real honour and
I wish you also lots of success for the future and I hope to read many lovely
memoirs of you!


Wednesday, 17 February 2021

Author in the picture: Valerie Poore

Valerie Poore is the lovely author of many books mostly wonderful memoirs such as
Waloon Ways (about Belgium), Faring to France on a Shoe, African Ways and many
more. 





Hallo Valerie or should I say Val?  (Val please!)

First of all thank you very much for participating in this small interview for
“My Crazy Life Full with Books.”

I’ve ‘met’ you via Lally Brown on Twitter and the We love memoirs group
on Facebook, but actually I ‘knew’ your boat earlier. During a visit to Rotterdam
in 2013, I took a picture of a beautiful boat called the Vereeniging.
Apparently this was the boat of Valerie Poore, which we both discovered in
2021.





Did you always have interest in living on a boat? 

Kathleen, firstly, may I thank you very much for inviting me to your blog.
I’m so pleased to be featured here. And I think it’s lovely that you took a
photo of my barge long before we ‘met’ each other. 


As for whether I was always interested in living on a boat, the answer is no.
In all honesty, I never thought of it until I came to the Netherlands.
I used to live in South Africa, which is a very dry country with virtually
no natural surface water. It was a great surprise to me to find people
living on barges here and travelling throughout Europe and I fell totally
in love with the whole idea.


You’ve a fantastic knowledge of Geography (inter alia the rivers,
the locks of a country) Was that always one of your interests
and do you have other interests too (besides writing of course)?

I’ve always liked maps and looking up routes and places to go, so
I suppose you could say I’ve just transferred that interest to the waterways
since I’ve been here. Now I love poring over the charts and seeing which rivers
and canals go where and how many locks there are. That can keep me absorbed
for hours. As for my other interests, well, I have quite a few. I love history and
went on some archaeological digs when I was young, and of course, I love
reading which helps with the history too. Besides these, I like woodwork and
making and restoring furniture, and I also like walking, photography and dogs.
Well, all animals actually, but especially dogs. I really miss having a dog and am
looking for one now.





How do you start living on a boat? I think by selecting a proper boat.
But how do chose the boat of your dreams?

Oh Kathleen, I have no idea how you should select a boat. You could
say that mine chose me because of her name. I saw my Vereeniging and
knew she had to be my barge. Vereeniging is the name of a town on the
Vaal river in South Africa where I used to go quite often for my work.
I loved sitting on the banks there, eating my lunch and reading and I
was very fond of the town. When someone showed me photos of the barge,
Vereeniging, I knew she was meant to be mine. It helped that I loved her
design as well and knew I could convert her into a special home


How could you describe your life on board?

My life is quite simple. I have everything I need but nothing more. That
means I have a small kitchen and a bathroom as well as a living area,
a work area and bed, but that’s all there is. There’s no room for anything
extra, so I have no TV, no music system and no dining table. I have
books (of course) and a table for my computer, but all the rest of the
space is dedicated to my tools, my water tanks, the engine room and
some storage space for other boaty stuff. It teaches you not to hoard
or collect too many possessions, which I quite like.






You travelled a lot with your boat, what lock complex is the most
complicated and or beautiful?


Wow, that’s a good question, Kathleen. Locks come in so many shapes
and sizes, but that said, I think the most complex lock systems I’ve been
through have been in Belgium. If you count the big lifts as locks, there
is the incredible 73-metre barge lift a Strèpy Thieu. Then there is the
amazing Inclined Plane at Ronquières where you trundle downhill in
the lock basin, which is a huge bath on wheels. After Ronquières,
you come to the second deepest lock in Belgium at Ittre. It’s 14 metres
deep and very impressive. Ittre is also very beautiful, but then so is Strèpy.
Actually, all of Belgium is beautiful. I love it.


Is it a dream to live all the time on a boat?

Ah, Kathleen, I’ve lived that dream already. I lived full-time on 
board for eight years. Then in 2008, I bought a cottage in the country
to get away from the city noise. I started going there at weekends, but
I was still on the boat more than on land. Since the Corona crisis started,
I’ve been at the cottage more than on my barge, simply because it’s easier
to keep away from people, but I expect I’ll go back to a sort of half-and-half
life on board when things open up again. In the summer, we hope to go away
on the boat and then we’ll be living on board full time for two to three months.





You’ve lived inter alia in England, South Africa and The Netherlands.
Are there similarities between the countries for ex. People,
habits …. Or totally not?

That’s a good question. I’d actually say they are all completely different
and surprisingly so. Even though the majority of South Africans speak
English as their main language, the people are quite different from the English.
They are very spontaneous and enthusiastic by nature.

English people are polite and very friendly but tend to be more reserved
and less demonstrative. The Dutch are different again, but I found it very
easy to adapt to life in the Netherlands. I like the honesty and matter of fact
nature of Dutch people, but if I had to choose where to live, I’d move to Belgium.
I love the countryside and waterways there. I also find the people charming
and friendly and I adore Gent. It’s my favourite city in Europe.

(It's one of my favourite ones too :-) )


Where do you get your inspiration to write your books?

Ah, Kathleen, that’s an easy question for someone who likes people watching.
It’s the people, the places and the very differences I’ve talked about that give me
the inspiration. I’ve been so lucky to have had so many great experiences in
different countries. That’s all the inspiration I need.





You’ve written wonderful memoirs. But what was the most
remarkable event that happened in your life?


Now, that’s much more difficult to decide. Apart from having my
children, a single event would be impossible to come up with. I had some
incredible experiences in South Africa, which make it even harder to choose.
However, I would say that the first long trip my partner, Koos, and I did by boat in
2016 is probably the event I will treasure forever. It was just magical.
We had two more wonderful summers in 2017 and 2018 that were longer
and just as lovely, but 2016 was the first time we’d been away for more
than a couple of weeks, so it will remain the most special.


Lots of people dream of winning the lottery. What would you do
when you would win the lottery?

You know I’ve never thought about that in any real sense. I really don’t know.
I’d probably give most of it away but depending on how much it was,
I might buy a cottage somewhere warm where I could spend the cold
winter months. I really, really hate the cold, so I’d probably do that.
Or, make sure I could spend European winters back in South Africa,
because I do miss it very much. Perhaps I should buy my cottage there!





My native language is Dutch, however most of the time
I speak and write in English. Do you speak Dutch? Was it difficult to learn? 

I read and write Dutch quite well, but yes, it’s a difficult language for someone
who learned French at school and not a Germanic language.
My biggest problem is listening as Dutch people tend to speak quite fast.
When they slow down, I can understand almost everything, and then I can speak
to them just fine. But, anyone who knows me will tell you they recognise the
blank look on my face when my Dutch friends are speaking too fast.
And I still make hilarious mistakes when I’ve misunderstood something.
There are so many words that sound similar it’s far too easy to mis-hear them!


I always end with the same question. What are your plans and
wishes for 2021 both personal and for the world?

Ah, Kathleen, I’m hesitant about making plans right now, but my personal
wishes are to cast off the ropes and go cruising in my beloved Belgium and
northern France again. I do so hope we’ll be able to do that this year.
And while we’re on wishes, I’d love to be able to go to Portugal or South Africa
next winter and do some more European travelling during the spring and autumn.
That’s a big wish list, I know. As for the world? Well, it would be great it if the
Covid virus lost its grip on us all and we could return to a normal state of existence.
It would be so lovely to get it out of the conversation.
That’s a very big wish, I know, but I look back to the time before Covid and
feel very nostalgic about how carefree we were then in so many ways. We could
then talk about other things that are important, but they seem to have gone by the
wayside since last February.



Social Media


You can find Valerie (Val) Poore on social media: 

These are the links

Twitter: link

Facebook: Link

And her blog: Link


Of course you can find her on Amazon too. on this link